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Your Balls Can Take a Lot More Than You Think

You used to own them, but not any more. Your nuts are Her’s now, and She wants to hurt them. She really does. When I […]

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Abduction Fantasies: Making Them Sizzle

Last night, my Mistress restrained me to the bed and began spinning a fantasy where She had kidnapped me and used me as a slave. […]

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You Can Be Alone

For me, this was one of the hardest, yet most rewarding lessons that I’ve learned in my life. When I met my first Mistress, I […]

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Demonstrating Service for the Single Submissive

It’s a lot easier to demonstrate your desire to submit and particularly serve when you already have a Mistress. But what do you do when […]

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Friendship and Community

There is more to the being a part of the BDSM lifestyle than serving your dominant. Sure, your relationship with your Mistress (or your efforts […]

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The Perfect Trap

The search for a Mistress can be incredibly frustrating. The numbers are against you – available submissive men far outnumber available dominant women. But there’s […]

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The Sweet Joy of Compersion

I’m not sure about the origin of the word. Like “polyamory” itself, the word compersion sounds a little like a made up term to explain […]

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